Initially, things are “easier” (less drama!) when you DON’T speak your truth and "go along” with the status quo - “Sure, I’d LOVE to host!”
Until of course, it starts to affect your health…
I wasn’t aware of exactly HOW MUCH I was repressing my emotions, until I started to notice that the frequent queasy feeling in my stomach was actually my body “disagreeing” with my actions. My body was acting like a judge in a courtroom drama, “Overruled!”
The interesting thing was once I started ACTUALLY listening to my body (and inner child), and the messages that they were trying to convey, I started to heal. I had FINALLY gotten the memo!
If you also struggle with repressed emotions (and speaking your truth), here are some tips:
Name it, don’t shame it. There are NO “bad” emotions - you feel how you feel.
Start journaling. Let it out!
Say bye-bye to guilt. Your feelings are valid.
If you’re feeling stuck, working with a well-qualified therapist can be really beneficial.
Sending you love and support on your healing journey,
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